Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Painting The Sky Blue For Mila.....

This is my darling Niece, Mila.
My brother and his wife are blessed with three children. Mila is their baby girl who was diagnosed with autism several years ago. Many do not understand or may not know about autism... This would be a great time to learn. April is set aside as Autism Awareness Month. Mila is a very special girl who has made so many wonderful strides in the last couple years, thanks to God and her patient, loving parents, brothers and family as well as the help of special needs teachers. She is a little star who shines brightly in the hearts of those who love her. Some days are surely not the easiest for her and her parents... Yet, they do all they can to learn about the world she lives in
This month we will be painting the sky blue for Mila and continually pray for the many children who are struck with autism...as well as prayers for their families. Even Mila is making her wishes.... I hope they will all come true for her!
And Then God Created This Mother….


When the Good Lord was creating mothers, He was into his sixth day of 'overtime' when an angel appeared and said,"You're doing a lot of fiddling around on this one."
And the Lord said "Have you read the specs on this order? She has to be completely washable, but not plastic, have 180 movable parts – all replaceable, run on black coffee and leftovers, have a lap that disappears when she stands up, a kiss that can cure anything from a broken leg to a disappointed love affair and six pairs of hands, ears that will hear things she doesn't want to hear, a mouth that can gently kiss away scrapes and bruises and yet tear the hide right off of those who try anything against the best interests of her child.
Yes, this model will have to be able to sit patiently and listen to outlandish reports about her child without flinching. She will have to hear how hopeless it all is and know that it isn't so. She will have to have those kinds of eyes which don't tear when she hears other mothers talk about how well things are going for their children."
The angel shook its head slowly and said, "Six pairs of hands, yet? No way." "It's not the hands that are causing the problems," said the Lord. "It's the three pairs of eyes this mother has to have." "That's on the standard model"? asked the angel.
The Lord nodded and said, "One pair that sees through closed doors when she asks, "What are you kids doing in there?" when she already knows. Another pair here in the back of her head that sees what she shouldn't but what she has to know and, of course, the ones here in front that can look at a child when he goofs up for the 99th time and say, "I understand and I love you anyway" without so much as uttering a word.
"Lord," said the angel, touching his sleeve gently, "come to bed. Tomorrow…" "I can't, answered the Lord, "I am so close to creating something so close to myself. Already I have one who heals herself when she is sick, feeds a family of six on one pound of hamburger and gets her nine-year-old to stand under a shower." The angel circled the model of a mother very slowly. "It's too soft," it sighed.
"But tough!" said the Lord excitedly. "You cannot imagine what this mother can do or endure." "Can it think?" asked the angel. "Not only can it think," said the Creator, "it can reason and compromise."
Finally, the angel bent over and ran a finger across the cheek. "There is a leak," it pronounced. "I told you that you were trying to put too much into this model." "That's not a leak, said the Lord, "it's a tear." "What's it for?" asked the angel.
"Tears are for joy, sadness, disappointment, pain, loneliness and pride… this model will know a lot about all that" answered the Lord, "But you know" He continued, "I don't even remember putting that tear there." "By the way", asked the angel, "what will you call this model?"
"I will call this one simply, the mother of an autistic child."
Author Unknown


13 comments:

  1. WOW!!! I get up early to get the kids ready for school, drinking my cup of coffee to start my long days and happen to see "Mila's little Face" on my sidebar leading to your blog. I am "SPEECHLESS" - Really, this is strait from the heart and I feel it with so much LOVE!!

    Goodness, My eyes watered as my heart soaked up every last word written in this post. I even had to read it over and over, hoping I wouldn't miss anything if I did. You certainly got it right on with the mixed-emotional Journey Parents face with this road of Autism. And, I couldn't have written a more compelling, heartfelt post myself as Mila's mother. Such a wonderful story at the end shared by you here written by "author unknown". I had never heard that one.

    Mica, Thank you! Not only for writing this as an Auntie of an autistic child, but to all and for all the other Mother's out there faced with this in their life every single day, 24/7. I count my blessings not only cause as we walk this journey I realize, Mila is at a different level with her spectrum, as some are more severe... but, I have seen also some autistic kids who are more advanced then her too. I count my "Blessings" for those who truly do understand, LOVE, embrace, accept, and help educate, advocate (get involved, ask questions) because Autism is so real, wide-spread and more common today effecting many children and families then ever. We need answers and voices - like you who truly understand.

    I feel you here, I feel your LOVE, Passion and HEART towards this cause for your Niece in this beautiful Post!! I love the Beautiful "BLUE" Art work from her sweet talented cousins and her Loving Auntie in support - My day is much BRIGHTER now because you have "LIT IT UP... BLUE" for Mila and other Kids out there just like her. :)

    I love you so Much... Thank YOU!!! xoxoxoxo

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  2. I had to come back to say; I absolutely LOVE the Dandelion pictures. Both of them and the last picture of the Dandelions is just Beautiful. Was that a Painting? It all just went together. - BIG HUGS and LOVE to you... xoxoxox

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  3. You did a wonderful job painting the sky blue for your sweet niece Mila in this post...I have a very close friend with a 8 year old who was born with Angelman Syndrome....my thoughts were on her when I read the story of God creating mothers....it is a major task to be a mother but,to be a mother of a special needs child takes an extraordinary mother! Its a wonderful post Mica.....blessings

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  4. I have friends with autistic child. These children are such a blessing but the parents also have many burdens. I think we need to have extra grace and love for these families xoox Clarice

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  5. Ceci (Mila's other grandma)April 6, 2011 at 10:10 AM

    What a beautiful & thoughtful post. Mica, you so eloquently captured the emotional trials & blessings of raising an autistic child. Thank you for this heartfelt effort in raising awareness of Autism.

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  6. What a beautiful way to celebrate little Mila and other precious children with Autism. Mila's little spirit shines bright in that blue sky!

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  7. What a wonderful hard read while I am at work..... :) I had to explain why I had tears rolling down my face.

    Simply Wonderful! and Simply you!

    Lovely post, I love you!

    LOri

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  8. Hey Sis, You did a very beautiful post about our niece.She is sooo loved by all her family.I wish I was close by her to help out.Mila will be and is an amazing person,I cant wait to see what life has instore for her.I feel for all families with kids of special needs and I hope God keeps giving them strength to raise the precious gift he has given them.God chose those families of special needs kids for a reason because they to are special too.

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  9. Mica, your post absolutely brought tears to my eyes and wings to my heart. Blessings on you! I am so thankful to God for the family HE has given me. We are so very, very blessed to have each other! XOXO

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  10. Aunt Jeanne said...That was a beautiful Post for little Mila and all the other children that have Autism. Mila is a very blessed child to have such a loving family that take such an interest in her. I am sure your post really touched Ty and Jeannine. They are a remarkable young couple. Raising a family during these time is hard enough but being given this special needs little angel is not an easy task. As a mother of a child with a disability I understand what it entails. I have so much respect and admiration for Jeannine as I know her every waking moments are torn between her trying to be the best wife and mom she can be. For most women that is a hard job but add to that a special needs child and what all is involved is harder than you can begin to imagine. I've watched her give all she has and yet she manages to give some more. I certainly hope your Post and Autism Awareness Month will make the public stop and think before they judge a child who may act a bit different. Lets hope it not only opens eyes but hearts as well.

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  11. Mica,
    Loved your blog! Thank you for bringing to attention the challenges of living with autism. It's so nice to show love and support, not only to the precious little ones like our Mila but especially their families! Thanks
    Veronica with HeavenCent Gifts

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  12. Beautiful post Mica. You are such a warm loving Auntie.
    The blue painting is beautiful too.
    Bless you sweet heart Mica
    Love you

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  13. I just want to say Thank you again for such a heartfelt post for Mila. It's that time of year again to bring awareness to this disability that is more prevalent then cancer now. I am just reflecting and appreciated all the blessings in my life. -This went a long way and continues for me in my heart.

    I love you!

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